Topic: Relationships

Relationships comes up in 19 chapters across 18 episodes of The Higherside Chats Free Show, from November 2012 to July 2026.

November 2012 July 2026

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Andy Hunt of Control Alt History | The Odyssey Nightclub, Dark Hollywood, & The First Erika Kirk
• 1:00:05 - 1:02:32

Andy Hunt of Control Alt History | The Odyssey Nightclub, Dark Hollywood, & The First Erika Kirk

Hollywood Rituals, Parasocial Relationships and Actor Baggage

Carlwood muses on the extent of ritual and spellcraft in Hollywood, questioning if actors like Keanu Reeves or Edward Norton can remain unaware of the industry's darker side. He warns listeners about the dangers of parasocial relationships with celebrities who may have significant "skeletons in their closets."

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Richard Grove | Grand Theft World: Schooling, Diamonds, & Blackmail
• 42:08 - 49:16

Richard Grove | Grand Theft World: Schooling, Diamonds, & Blackmail

Mark Lombardi, Global Power Networks, and the Art of Connection

Richard Grove describes the influence of artist Mark Lombardi, who created intricate "entity relationship diagrams" mapping the connections between the Bush family, the Bin Laden family, and the BCCI scandal. Grove recounts the suspicious circumstances of Lombardi's death in 2000 and how his work inspired the visual modeling used in the History Blueprint. The segment highlights the FBI's interest in Lombardi's maps following the September 11 attacks.

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Dr. Joanna Kujawa | Sexual Alchemy, Erotic Rapture, & The Goddesses of Eros
• 51:29 - 57:25

Dr. Joanna Kujawa | Sexual Alchemy, Erotic Rapture, & The Goddesses of Eros

Healthy Masculinity, Vulnerability and the Romantic Trap

The conversation shifts to how men can recontextualize their sexuality away from conquest and toward emotional honesty. Dr. Kujawa describes the "romantic trap" where individuals play outdated roles—the seductress and the conqueror—which ultimately kills true Eros. She advocates for a "personal quest" to discover one's identity before entering committed relationships, emphasizing that vulnerability is a strength in erotic encounters.

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Daniel Moler | The Shamanic Soul, Psychedelic Awakening, & The Comic/Occult Overlap
• 12:09 - 14:48

Daniel Moler | The Shamanic Soul, Psychedelic Awakening, & The Comic/Occult Overlap

Shamanic Rapport and Individual Sensory Experiences

The concept of "rapport" is defined as a reciprocal relationship with other realms, similar to a friendship or marriage. Moeller emphasizes that spiritual interaction is not uniform; some people see entities, while others experience smells, memories, or psychic pulls. He encourages practitioners to find their own unique niche in communicating with the daemonic realms rather than comparing themselves to others.

Paul Levy | Wetiko: Healing The Mind-Virus That Plagues Our World
• 52:08 - 56:13

Paul Levy | Wetiko: Healing The Mind-Virus That Plagues Our World

Future Publications and the Role of Compassion

Levy previews his upcoming books, which will focus on Wetiko as a revelatory phenomenon and its influence on personal relationships. He compares the process of understanding Wetiko to physicists observing a "quantum animal" from multiple perspectives to grasp its true nature. The interview concludes with the assertion that genuine awakening is always accompanied by compassion for all beings, including those in power.

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Steven Snider aka Recluse | Honey Pots, Cicada 3301, & High Strangeness
• 5:47 - 8:42

Steven Snider aka Recluse | Honey Pots, Cicada 3301, & High Strangeness

British Intelligence Propaganda and the Special Relationship Mythos

The discussion defines "The Special Relationship" as a propaganda mythos created by British intelligence during World War II to overcome American isolationism. Stephen Snyder describes how Sir William Stevenson oversaw operations to shift US sentiment, eventually evolving into the use of soft power through cultural exports like British rock and comedy.

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Kerry Rhodes & Farzin Toussi | The Medicine: Ayahuasca, Spirit Contact, & Shamanic Healing
• 32:30 - 36:48

Kerry Rhodes & Farzin Toussi | The Medicine: Ayahuasca, Spirit Contact, & Shamanic Healing

Re-experiencing Infancy, Self-Healing and Relationships

During his second ceremony, Kerry Rhodes experienced a vivid vision of himself as a baby in a crib, feeling a desperate need for external validation and comfort. He describes an epiphany where he realized he could provide his own support, leading to a shift in his perspective on romantic relationships and self-reliance. This "accelerated therapy" helped him move forward as a more spiritually balanced individual.

Ben Davidson | Pole Shifts, Space Weather, Earth Changes, & The CIA
• 1:05:46 - 1:08:56

Ben Davidson | Pole Shifts, Space Weather, Earth Changes, & The CIA

Balancing Preparedness with Quality of Life

The host and guest discuss the psychological toll of "doomsday" thinking, warning against the "nocebo" effect where fear negatively impacts health. Davidson advises listeners not to abandon their lives or jobs prematurely, as the timing of a magnetic reversal remains uncertain. He emphasizes that true power comes from knowledge and being mentally prepared for a world where honor and loyalty might replace currency.

Magnora 7 | Anthony Bourdain, Kate Spade, & The Suicide String Conspiracy
• 18:12 - 21:57

Magnora 7 | Anthony Bourdain, Kate Spade, & The Suicide String Conspiracy

Asia Argento, Paparazzi Photos, and Open Relationship Narratives

The mainstream narrative regarding Anthony Bourdain's suicide is challenged, specifically the claim that he was distraught over paparazzi photos of Asia Argento with another man. Theories regarding an "open relationship" are discussed, with suggestions that this narrative was a cover story promoted by associates like Rose McGowan. The timing of the photos and Bourdain's skip of a final dinner are noted as key details in the official timeline.

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Jeanice Barcelo | The Dark Agenda Behind The Hospital Birth Protocols
• 1:08:50 - 1:14:40

Jeanice Barcelo | The Dark Agenda Behind The Hospital Birth Protocols

Spiritual Capacity, Pristine Earthling Potential

The discussion concludes with the idea that while most people survive hospital births physically, their spiritual capacities have been neutralized. Referencing the Ringing Cedars book series, Barcello describes the "pristine earthling" as a version of humanity prior to genetic and traumatic alteration. She argues that damaged instincts and the inability to form healthy relationships are evidence of the trauma inflicted during the birthing process.

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J.M. DeBord | Dream Interpretation, Symbolism & The Subconscious
• 39:18 - 43:12

J.M. DeBord | Dream Interpretation, Symbolism & The Subconscious

Zombie and Ex-Partner Symbolism, Stagnation and Transformation

Zombies in dreams can represent a feeling of being surrounded by mindless people or a personal state of lethargy and stagnation. Because zombies are "stuck" between life and death, they often symbolize dead relationships where hope still lingers. Dreams about ex-partners frequently serve as symbols for specific qualities or lessons the dreamer needs to integrate into their current life.

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Conner Habib | Sexuality, Oppression, & The Occult
• 45:45 - 49:35

Conner Habib | Sexuality, Oppression, & The Occult

Monogamy, Infidelity and Intentional Relating

Habib characterizes lifelong monogamy as a "widespread sexual perversion" when it is based on repression rather than intentional choice. He argues that most people default to monogamy out of insecurity or cultural pressure, leading to high rates of hypocrisy and cheating. He advocates for "intentional relating," where partners frequently revisit and discuss their relationship boundaries, whether they choose to be monogamous for a day, a month, or a lifetime.

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Richard Belzer | Corporate Conspiracies, Robin Williams, & Media Mind Control
• 12:44 - 14:20

Richard Belzer | Corporate Conspiracies, Robin Williams, & Media Mind Control

Medical Community Ethics, Social Media and Self-Diagnosis

The evolution of the doctor-patient relationship is analyzed in the context of modern pharmaceutical advertising and social media. Patients now frequently approach doctors requesting specific drugs they have seen advertised, complicating the ethical responsibilities of the medical community. This shift is contrasted with a past era where medical visits were affordable and doctors were more implicitly trusted by their communities.

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Dr. Bruce Lipton | The Biology Of Belief, Self-Healing, & Epigenetics
• 39:24 - 41:15

Dr. Bruce Lipton | The Biology Of Belief, Self-Healing, & Epigenetics

The Honeymoon Effect, Mindfulness and Heaven on Earth

Falling deeply in love triggers a state of mindfulness where individuals remain in their conscious minds rather than defaulting to subconscious programs. This period, known as the "honeymoon," is characterized by health, happiness, and a feeling of heaven on earth because the self-sabotaging habits are not being played. During this time, people manifest their true wishes and desires because they are fully present.

Dr. Bruce Lipton | The Biology Of Belief, Self-Healing, & Epigenetics
• 41:16 - 43:20

Dr. Bruce Lipton | The Biology Of Belief, Self-Healing, & Epigenetics

Relationship Sabotage, Return of Subconscious Habits and Relationship Failure

The honeymoon period typically ends when the pressures of daily life force the conscious mind back into thought, causing a default to subconscious programming. Partners begin to see negative behaviors that were hidden during the mindful phase, leading to confusion and conflict. The relationship suffers as the creative conscious life is replaced by the same negative programs that existed before the couple met.

Austin Coppock | Astrology, Trump, & The 2017 Assessment
• 48:12 - 51:04

Austin Coppock | Astrology, Trump, & The 2017 Assessment

Venus Retrograde, Emotional Cleansing and Sex Scandals

A Venus retrograde occurring from March 4 to April 15, 2017, is described as an "emotional laxative" that digs up repressed feelings in relationships. Historically, these periods are associated with high-profile sex scandals and reversals in personal or collective values. This specific retrograde in Aries is part of an eight-year cycle that forces a cleansing of long-held emotional baggage.

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Eve Lorgen | The Alien Love Bite, The Dark Side of Cupid, & Entity Involvement In Human Romance
• 2:03 - 5:03

Eve Lorgen | The Alien Love Bite, The Dark Side of Cupid, & Entity Involvement In Human Romance

Alien Love Bite, Relationship Engineering by Extraterrestrial Handlers

Eve Lorgan defines the alien love bite as the deliberate engineering or disruption of human love connections by extraterrestrial handlers. Case histories involve abductees whose partners were scared off or chosen by entities to test emotional responses. Lorgan credits late researchers Dr. Carla Turner and Barbara Bartolak for their foundational work on the drama of love obsession engineered by alien beings.

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THC 72: Lenon Honor | The Syria Simulation, Media Manipulation Cycles, & Doing Something Different
• 42:51 - 47:24

THC 72: Lenon Honor | The Syria Simulation, Media Manipulation Cycles, & Doing Something Different

Strategies for Ending Verbal Warfare in Relationships

Lennon Honor provides practical advice for men to avoid arguments and "verbal warfare" with their partners. He emphasizes the need for self-discipline and the role of the man as a protector, which includes protecting his mate from his own ego and aggressive behavior. Honor defines arguing as a form of psychological trauma and encourages men to lead their relationships away from volatility by choosing peace over the need to "win."

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THC 37: Dr. Matt Mumber | Sustainable Wellness
• 20:13 - 22:37

THC 37: Dr. Matt Mumber | Sustainable Wellness

Shifting Medicine from Procedures to Relationship-Centered Service

Modern medicine is evolving from a technology-focused model to a relationship-centered partnership between physicians and patients. The term "patient," derived from the Latin for "submissive sufferer," is being redefined as individuals become responsible participants in their own care. This shift includes a greater emphasis on nutrition, movement, stress management, and the patient's ultimate spiritual concerns alongside traditional procedures.

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