34:26 Napoleon Hill, author of Think and Grow Rich asked over 25 thousand people that question and found only 2% of people could give him an answer. What's more he also found the people who went on to accomplish great things were the two percent who could answer it He calls the trait of the two percent Definite miss of purpose and i like that weather it's health or any of our goals how can we best use this information how do we start out a deeper emotional purpose to our goals. Oh man, now you're asking. You went straight for the jugular there! Those are some of the most impactful and difficult questions to answer when it comes to health or a well-lived life for that matter so what I've found in doing this work for as long as i have it started mostly in the alternative health realm and as many different ways as I could work on my body and what I realized over time was I can have the best health information in the world personally done over three dozen different healing modalities on my own body. I mean I tried a lot
35:30 And as you walk through that you realize should i have so many different ways i can help somebody with the facility where we get help and. So many different ways from nutrition to chiropractor can actually punch your natural tea and so on but at the end of the day if we didn't have a way to address this purpose question or did What's driving this person where is the motivation come from results that typically are gonna be any better than anything else you might try and what's been interesting for me since this blog post when is the volume of. People who come in for a consultation will become clients. Who have resonated so deeply with this idea of feeling like they're kind of floundering that you are almost rudderless like they need something to sink their teeth into because we humans are predictable if we don't feel like,
36:17 What we do matters if we can't sink our teeth into a sense of purpose if you just feel like taking up space. We become very unmotivated very quickly and so the flip side that is the more you can answer those questions easier it gets to stay fuller bigger and two practice the health habits that you know are part of that well live life you want so That's a long way to get to the answer the question but the point is if you will take that time fuel create this space today. Yeah why does it matter what am i here on this earth today who can i help every human
36:54 What is the weather interactive and can tell what's the feel like they are making a difference that their actions matter in that at the end of the day somebody life is better because they showed up. And so much of the motivation black hole that you fall into globally where do i am myself, in that context especially if i can imagine for people that are just graduating trying to find a place to go work when u can step back and say what would be meaningful life Is your definition of success is going to be multifaceted it's not gonna be if you're super healthy and broken have no friends. That won't feel successful in flip that around if you have great friends near super healthy and broke, that doesn't feel successful so the point is we have different check marks a check boxes that we have to hit me after you have enough attention to so that we don't go through life never feels successful
37:49 So part of purpose is recognizing that it won't just be saving the whales or ending world hunger stopping human trafficking. We overthink it sometimes, It's just who do I matter to and where do I find a sense of joy? Where can I bring joy to others and as long as you have the feeling that you matter to one person There's an uptick of motivation because now whatever action I'm about to take has meaning because I get to show up for that person So i can say but that's some of what have been teasing out over the years of how important it is to find that and sometimes when you can't seem defined answers to those questions, you flip the script and just start looking for a series of small wins at something you can control. Can you go to bed on time can you drink water consistently can you exercise and you find things
38:38 Whether it's vocationally relationally that just give you a sense of like hey i'm actually making progress. That feeling of progress can help you have the fuel to say, oh. I see how this is making a difference and then on the biological level. The flip side if you are sleeping well in your undernourished never drink water in your super stressed and you don't ever play It's gonna be really hard to have any the biological bandwidth even ask the questions about your purpose so that it's a holistic ways much as i can frame in this time said how to start. Thinking about where you find your sense of purpose but more you gotta figure out where u r and not ability to articulate what's important to you, help me know where to aim in terms of what would be the next step to help me get closer to a clear purpose